Life's Bittersweet Simplicities

Archive for April, 2005

funny

its funny how pplalways tend to trust the wrong ppl..like me.. after 15 yrs..i still always trust the strangest ppl .. but then there are those that really r trustworthy * u guys know who u r * i dont even know what im babbling about today but just one of my random ponderings as usual

today…not much work!! xD but dammit..i ddint know bm was the 1st lesson so i onli memorised my lisan this morning and i got all b!! wargghhH!! but im gonna redo on monday ^-^ hehee

sej..we went to watch khek mong play… =/ poor guy lost er….can c he played quite badly..miss a lot..oh well..he won doubles i think.. 4got di…well not 4got..ppl tell me wan..so not sure

i dont know/..today was a pretty weird n complicated day..from 1 event to another..like 1 minute its happy..1 minute its sad..then happy then sad then happy?? stonnneedd.. no idea wads up with that… but my life tends to get more complicated lately

u muz all b wondering.. WHAT IS SHE TALKING ABOUT??!?!?! to be honest..im wondering just that as well.. oh well..im off to bathe…ian n lp’s bday…didnt get her pressie..waiting 4 my hamsters to get pregnant.. kakakakaka

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hermmm

sorry for not updating peeps..a lot of things have arised…and complications…sigh..im really messed up right now… confused…but nothing i can do… let’s just see how it goes.. and those that have been there for me so far..i love you guys~!! thanks!! muacks..n hugs~!!

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sorry

hahahaha….sorry ppl..long time didnt blog..motherboard dried by lightning..a bit bz now..will update after monday!! i swearrr..really long posts ok??? muacks

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presence 4 love

A man going abroad to work leaves his fiancee crying. “Don’t worry, I will write you everyday,” he said. For years he did write her. But since he was happy with his job, he had no immediate plans of going home. One day, he received a wedding invitation. His girlfriend was scheduled to be married. To whom? To the mailman bringing regularly the letters of her boyfriend!

Indeed, distance does make hearts flounder. The poor boyfriend surely explained, “What went wrong? I sent her letters, chocolates, and flowers.” When relationships go wrong, the list of things given and done for the person usually crops up. We say, “I have given you this and that… I have done these things for you.” It seems that love is simply proven by the bestowal of gifts and favors. But while presents are important, love demands what is basic: ‘presence of the beloved’. I have observed for instance, the orchids of my mother’s. When she’s away for a long time, they are unhealthy and many of them wither. But when she is around, they bloom with beautiful flowers. My mother does nothing exceptional. She just spends much time talking and caressing them. I guess persons all the more require a caring presence.

Love is fundamentally a commitment to a person. We may be committed to our business, job, hobby, sports and clubs. But strictly speaking, they cannot love us back. Only a person can love us in return, and for that matter, the highest commitment as human beings, is spending time with those persons we love. And since people need affection and nourishment, material things can only help up to a certain degree in fostering love. But it can never replace the greatest gift of presence because everyone needs someone – be it friends, parents, siblings or simply that ’special’ one. Being there for someone need not necessary mean having to say alot. Words are sometimes redundant. Remember that ‘presence’ (to be there for someone) is more than enough. “What Is Most Valuable Is Not What You Have In Your Life, But Who You Have In Your Life” In our pursuits, let’s not neglect spending quality time with the most important person/people of our lives.

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happy day

well well…today was a surprisingly good day ^-^ hehee…i guess i havent felt so happy in quite a long time actually..i havent laughed or smiled so much in school since last year…hehee..today not much work to do in school also..but it was really an amusing day..haha..lost of funny events happened..like the joke that got out of hand and ended up as a rumour which people so pahtetically believe..and yen wei falling because of a piece of cheesecake on the floor which she happened to cause it to drop in the first place…haha..how idiotic is that!??!?! yay!! tomorrow going to watch sepet in the hall!1 hee..wanted to watch nobody teman me..now get to watch in school.. whahhahahhaha..but i still got tons on work to do from the past 2 weeks *groans* but i’ll do it in school..

it’s sooo stuppiiiddd~~!!! there’s a scrabble comp in school but i didnt know about it!! *whines* i wanted to join!!! so unfairrrr!! my friends are evil !! hmph~!! (”¬_¬) and im still itching like mad… ughh~!!! i hate dog mites!! stupid stupid!!! and my poor doggies..all their skin coming off and hair..chippy’s tail…skinless liao.,.can c all the meat n blood!! so kesian!! me also now..all the bintik merah everywhere…kesian like shit!!

ANDDDDD!!!! I DID IT I DID IT!! i succesfully played cupid!!! the 2 love birds i put together are together now!! hehehe..less then a week man!! i am good.. mwahahahhaahhahhaha!!! bow before me simple minded ppl!! nyek nyek nyek~!!

(10.56pm edit : complications has arised…love birds not together yet….dued to sum halangans…. >.< will update more)

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