haha..if uve read my other blog no point reading this blog.. will b diff la the way i type ..maybe this 1 more heartfelt or something..lol.. but about the same wan ge lar
ppl always think.. especially ppl like ian believe that opposites do not belong together because of their conflicting opinions and minds… clashing and banging and fights constantly erupting.. but i beg to differ.. to me.. i think it takes 2 very different ppl to make 1 perfect person because their differences help each other grow and learn…
ppl of the same characters… may make good friends but they will never b perfect as a couple.. because they will forever remain naive and lost.. in fact..more clashing than that of opposite characters…i guess to me..it would just be boring…and the relationship is lifeless
what if for exmaple both persons are dark.. and they have death thoughts all the time… what woul it result it.. death of both person.. so what if 1 was bright and happy..and the other was sad and dark … ixed together.. they will learn.. and create a perfect balance of light and dark… wouldnt they?? isnt it better to be different in a relationship than to be the same?
where would balance be? if the perfect couple were alike? it would b too much of one thing.. lacking things that other ppl have..
ian has hurt me in many ways..some ways none of u could ever imagine.. but without a doubt..i still love him.. and i still continue to forgive him…i may neveer forget and occasionally bring them up when there’s a fight… but…the most important is.. that i forgave…so…this is why im still with him….time…patience…and will .. =) the key ingredients… cuz i seriously dont believe in reationships where everything is perfect and no fights happen… that onli happens after everything has settled down… and the hard part has been overcomed ;p
