u know..its strange how people especially outsiders seem to enjoy assuming things from hearing something from one side and onli having one perception of a certain situation .. but thats perfectly normal..strange yet normal as its just human nature to side with the person u know and see it from 1 angle because admittedly.. i do that too
but the even funnier part.. is when they choose to butt into the argument and give their own opinions.. but then again.. that’s perfectly OKAY as well .. because everyone has rights and have their own opinions on certain things.. but.. what is the point of HIDING? behind an annonymous name and yet choosing to butt in? why be so afraid to reveal.
maybe if that person was just leaving 1 opinion behind.. AN OPINION ..and 1 and 1 only.. and had no intentions of adding oil to the fire.. maybe that would be okay to remain annonymous about but if that person acted like he/she KNEW EVERYTHING and continuously replied yet continued to remain annonymous.. WHY?? what is the point??
if u really KNEW EVERYTHING…. you would have heard it from both sides of the party.. not just one.. but both sides.. and not from doing things like reading blogs.. but from actually talking to both sides of the party.. then there would be no reason to hide.. because like i said.. different ppl have different opinions.. does one really think that a person would accept advice from an annonymous person who acted like he/she knew everything? or from a person that he/she knew and had actually talked to properly..?
maybe one would think that by remaining annonymous…it would protect the feelings of the one that he/she was critisizing … but.. to me… i think that’s just a stupid way of doing things.. because.. isnt that in a sense called backstabbing?? but hey.. its just my opinion…
i seem to have a new phrase that i keep saying lately… especially to those who ask me why don’t i just hide my feelings n pretend that everythings okay instead of making so many enemies unnecessarily?
well.. i would rather have a 100 enemies and a close friend than a 100 friends who backstab me… because seriously.. is there really a point of trusting so many people when behind you all they do is bitch??
being with ian i learnt a lot of things.. the most important.. trust.. i learnt to be more careful with the people im with and i learnt not to trust everyone as easily as i used to.. that’s why i dont have a best friend.. i have close friends and good friends.. but they aren’t my best friends…and till now i will stand to the point where my best friend will b my lover… no… ian isn’t my best friend… at least not at the moment he isn’t because trust doesnt really exist much between us..
and people just seem to keep making that level of trust between us get worst.. lol.. i dont know why… i seriously don’t….but it’s his friends… so like whatever?? it’s only them doing anything .. mine prefer to just watch but kid them not.. they are always by my side when i need them most and because of that.. i’ll love them always~ *huggies to u guys* u know who u are
though most of them have never been in any relationships or serious relationships.. they know how much ian means to me and how much i want to be with him .. so they dont force me to go out with them when i have plans with ian.. and they dont get angry or scheme for ways to seperate us when they don’t see me as much anymore..even when they ask me out they make it a point to ask me to bring ian as well despite the fact that they aren’t really very happy about me and him being together on account of all the hurt this relationship has been inflicting on me…AND MOST IMPORTANTLY.. they dont USE me and STEP on me or TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME they way some of ian’s friends do…. funniest part is.. ian know’s this.. yet chooses to close 1 eye.. well.. because it’s ian .. he’s the type that talks but does nothing…lol..the total opposite of me…
they RESPECT me and they know that no matter what, i’ll always be their friend and that i will always try my best to b there when they need me.
