“i was in a similar relationship once. you know, a relationship like that isnt going to work out.”
“he’s only like that to you. i really don’t know why. he behaves and talks damn childishly. he’s never like that with us.”
“then again. maybe it’s because he loves you that why he hurts you that way.”
“but he loves you too!!”
“you know it’s different ginny, he loves me in a different kind of way.”
“i told you you can’t keep going on like that. you’re going to get sick and tired of it eventually. dont say i didnt warn you. i saw it from the start”
this conversation keeps replaying in my head. said less than a week back and the whole reality of it just keeps hitting me harder and harder. does a relationship with such personality clash and so many fights in just the beginning ever work? even if it doesn’t. how much of it is worth before the damage becomes to deep to recover? … sometimes… perhaps love alone really isnt enough.
and they say a dog and a horse make an amazing pair. haha. the irony. this time, the 2 stars clash. it really is epic isnt it.?
I gotta take a little time
A little time to think things over
I better read between the lines
In case I need it when Im colder
In my life there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again
Cant stop now, Ive traveled so far
To change this lonely life
I wanna know what love is…..
I want you to show me……
I wanna feel what love is…..
I know you can show me……
I’m gonna take a little time
A little time to look around me….
Ive got nowhere left to hide
It looks like love has finally found me….
In my life, there’s been heartache and pain
I don’t know if I can face it again.
-Mariah Carey, I want to know what Love is
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love is love.
always complicated.
no one can justify but you
Do I love you because you’re beautiful,
Or are you beautiful because I love you?
Love is complicated, but hang on in there. I hope you’ll find a way
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sometimes you just got to accept that that person is not the right one. Why be in a relationship in the first place? The goal I presume is to find that partner that you can spend your life with and you’re happy with. I dont agree with the ‘he loves you thats why he hurts you’ explanation as it’s more of an excuse for doing a poor job at being a boyfriend. He shouldn’t be hurting you. Yeah people are human, and we tend to hurt our partners sometimes but you have to draw a line somewhere though that somewhere depends on each person.
Personallities that clash can go together, but doesn’t mean all of them do, and higher % of them probably dont. Plus if there are so many fights already in the beginning, can’t imagine what it would be further on into the relationship. The early parts supposed to be the easy parts……
just
i.m.o.
@HW : I love your comment .
but I think [or i suppose] shes doing this in full know of what you have just said.
so if she still continues being hurt, and loss in the relationship, I guess she’s up for the bumpy ride.
No, Ginny?
its because it starts in the beginning that it’s messy u never know if the other person is the right one =)
the worst relationships are those that u think okay i can spend my life with this person for the rest of my life in the beginning but it gets shit in the end
so im walking through this wall seeing just how far i can stand and to find out just how worthwhile it is.
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